Hi Diane!
The best thing to do is when you have a little time to spare take some time, maybe an hour or so to go through some of the categories here.
I would start by visiting our Social Networking section first then add any of your websites or social media profiles there so we an fan, friend or follow you.
Then visit our resource and seo tips section to read up on what it takes to help get exposure to your site via search engines like Google or submitting your site to directories and article submission places.
Once you've done that and you feel a little more comfortable with the layout, I would recommend getting together with other members who own blogs or who are looking to exchange links and make sure you take advantage of all of the exposure methods we have like product reviews, blog roll, traffic exchange (coming in the next week) and more.
You can always send me a private message if you or anyone else has any questions.
I'm definitely here to help.
